An affair to remember does not happen without any solid reason. It could be anyone’s fault. Here are 8 reasons why men have affairs.
1. Men wish to skip the monotony
A lot of men feel that they are caught in the monotony. Bickering kids, nagging wife, a boss who uses them as a punch bag and it couldn’t get worse. To bring about a meaningless change in their life, they feel the need to do something wild.
2. They want to feel like bachelors again
Some men who develop a sudden urge to be bachelors again, lose control and feel that they perhaps have a chance to meet other women. Most of this stems from marital dissatisfaction.
3. They don’t like their wives anymore
The wife has now become a pain. She constantly fights and reminds them how irresponsible they are. The dinners become more like a routine than a romantic treat with someone you love. Men realize that it’s a marriage without any love.
4. Their wives don’t give them required attention
With some men it could be the other way round. Their wives are so self-involved and caught up in either reaching career goals or socializing with friends that they never find time for their husband. Hence, there is a need to find love outside their marriage.
5. Men feel hen pecked
A lot of men are treated with disrespect. They are not allowed to host dinner parties or go out with friends and have a limited social life. They are only expected to bring money home and help out with household chores. This can keep them on tenterhooks.
6. Their wives have changed physically
The woman they married has now changed in the way she looks. Either men feel she has lost her charm or isn’t paying enough attention to herself. When a man no longer feels attracted to his wife, he can stand racing behind other women.
7. Sex with the same woman is not fun anymore
A lot of men feel that it’s nothing to be proud of to sleep with just one woman for the rest of their lives. They feel inclined to go on a jolly ride.
8. It’s all about responsibilities
Marriage is all about responsibilities. All the love, chemistry and mystery is gone from the relationship. Men may feel the need to enliven themselves, fall in love again and see how the unexpected unfolds.
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