Can This Be Love: Man Sues UK Based Wife For Abandonment

James Onyike was a loving husband and devoted father who cared enough about his wife Patricia’s future to send her abroad for a one-year course in the United Kingdom. When he paid her airfare and tuition back in 2008, little did he know that the chick had flown the coop.

He is suing her before a Cusomary Court in Garki, Abuja.

James told the court, “My wife secured a one-year admission for further studies in the United Kingdom (UK). I paid the tuition and accommodation fees for the programme on the understanding that she would return after one year. But on expiration of the programme, my wife decided to stay back and enroll for another programme.

“On completion of her second course, she refused to come back to Nigeria. I continued to beg her to return, but she refused. Till date, she is still in London. She has practically abandoned me and the children, he said.’’

He said his wife was abusive, lacked affection and conducted herself as if she was still single.

“When I visited her in London, she was so hostile to me and the children. She never cared for the children as a mother would. When I told her to try spending a little time with the children, she told me that she does not have time and that I should look after them. She kept avoiding me all through our stay, we never related like husband and wife should. In fact, she even threw me out of her room,’’ he said.

Onyike said that the love, affection and trust expected to exist between couples evaporated almost immediately after the wedding, according to NAN.

“On our wedding day, my wife’s real father showed up, but my wife had lied to me that her father was dead. She made me pay the bride price to someone whom she said was her brother. Even when she visited Nigeria in 2010, though we stayed under the same roof, she was always keeping to herself. She was no longer exhibiting that motherly love and affection,’’ he said.

The Igbo businessman prayed the court dissolute the marriage and grant him custody of the children.

In her testimony, Patricia, who was represented by a counsel, Mrs Timitope Joshua, said they had enjoyed love and affection for each other.

“There was never any serious quarrel between us; he even encouraged me to travel for further studies. When I finished the first course, he visited UK and encouraged me to enroll for another course, which he said would make me a better qualified nurse,’’ she said.

he said that her husband and the children always visited her in London on every vacation, adding that “whenever they could not make it, I visit.

“I have never been hostile in any of their visits. I try my best to take good care of them and we stay together happily until the vacation is over. So, I am surprised to hear that my husband has levelled accusations against me,” she said.

Patricia said her husband never informed her that he was no longer comfortable with her studies in the UK.

She said she still loved her husband and her two children. She also said that the marriage had not broken down irretrievably and could be redeemed in the interest of the children.

She begged the court not to grant her husband’s prayers, adding that she was still interested in the marriage.

The Judge, Alhaji Suleiman Ismaila, gave them four weeks to try and reconcile and adjourned the case to March 7.

 

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