If Timi Dakolo thought he was just giving an opinion on the matter of divorce that would just be read and ignored and forgotten, he was quite wrong indeed.
His now viral post on divorce and how people should stick to marriages more have brought him a war with controversial OAP Freeze, cheating allegations and its effects have reverberated round social media.
A woman who claims she was married to a homosexual and was only in the marriage as a cover-up for the guy took to her page to give her opinion as to how Timi’s post affected her.
Read her post below.
Timi sounded judgemental. Who does Timi think that will just wake up and stroll out of marriage? Cos I don’t understand. Some people are afraid to leave for the shame and all sorts. This thing is not a physical thing. Two people that were loving today being worst enemies tomorrow
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Because your marriage seems perfect does not make you a judge. Even the Bible didn’t judge people that are divorced like this. I woke up one day and discovered that my husband is a sworn homosexual using me to cover up. Since our wedding day, no sex
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I endured for 5 whole years, no child, no domestic violence but I became depressed to the point that I lost my mind. I hear voices in my head, gets scared to death and wish for death to come. I was a virgin and demanded no sex before marriage
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I was 37 when I ran away from the house after an anonymous caller revealed there was an attempt to kill me. It was later confirmed and I was wondering what else is there for me to give. I prayed every single day, called on God, fasted, I did all that hoping for things to change but instead, I almost died
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He just wanted to get rid of me so people will not look at him somehow if he doesn’t get married again and no one will know what I suffered
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All that was left was for me to sacrifice my life. Now, doctors are saying I have fibroids all over my womb, my chances of getting pregnant and sustaining is is very slim. If I do the surgery now, by two years when It will be safe for pregnancy I will be 41
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Since I read Timi’s post, I couldn’t sleep. I feel sharp pains in my chest. Am I not complete? There was no domestic violence. Was I wrong to leave? Cos everyone thought I was enjoying. Is Timi and his Wife more righteous in the sight of God than Me? I have been broken. Maybe you never know what people pass through
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I would have gladly loved to be beaten every day, I would have a physical scar that will heal, if my husband had kids outside, it would have been better off
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At leastt, I would be able to say it outside than die in silence.
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