What is the fuss about being in a relationship? To be honest, not a few relationships are forced, fake, terrible and full of abuse. Very few people can take this sort of behaviors from another person especially intelligent people. These kind of people do not mind waiting till they meet the right person for them.
The society and yes our parents disagree with this, they always tell their female child to be the one to make a relationship work after all it is a ‘man’s world’. So it is okay to take some few punches and seal your month. Sad much? Okay let me just use this post to highlight what fellow super girls should do in such situations;
Remember, it is about you and no one else
It is so easy to get frustrated and worry too much if you are a single woman and especially when you are in your 30s and you actually want to settle down one day. The pressure from friends and family can just be too much to handle. As a single woman, you need to understand it’s your life and you shouldn’t live it for others. No one should control your relationships for you; you alone should be in control. I mean, if you end up settling for less just to make these people happy–you know you would make yourself sad and full of regrets and darling, forever is a very long time to feel miserable.
Utilize the single status, because you might never have it again
You should enjoy being single because you won’t be restricted from doing whatever you want to do. Instead of worrying about being single, I think you should instead live life and be happy. Learn new skills, make new friends, travel, spend your money of obnoxious things etc. Because when you get hitched it can’t be about you anymore, when you have kids–it just becomes worse. So I suggest you enjoy this time you have while it lasts.
Maybe it is time to work on yourself and make yourself better
When you are single it is important you use that time to re-evaluate why your previous relationship came to an end and try to make yourself a better person. Maybe you are stubborn, egocentric or maybe you are someone who gets angry easily, you should use that time to work on yourself. Not working on your attitude, work on yourself physically and mentally too. Be the best you can be, it would not just make you happy but it will also pave way for the right people to come your way.
Again, take your time before settling
I have seen a married couple divorce and to be honest, it is not a pretty sight. It does not just affect you both, it affects your kids, friends, family members and all. It will also put a strain on your pocket. If you ask those that have gone through divorce, they would tell you it’s much easier ending a relationship than ending a marriage. You go through a lot when you end a marriage. Being single due to a failed relationship failed doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world for you.
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