“Is It your Menopause?”-Halima Abubakar Defends ‘Virginity’ Comment

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Halima Abubakar, the beautiful Nollywood actress has come back against haters who mocked her over her post on Instagram.

Recall that the actress had put up an Instagram post stating that she couldn’t wait to lose her virginity and have kids, a comment that garnered a lot of interest from fans and neutrals alike.

The actress who was mocked by fans who said she should go and have kids as soon as possible as menopause was coming, has now hit back stating, “What kind of thing is that? Is it your menopause?  I still have about nine years before I hit menopause all things being equal.”

She stated in an interview; “Why would people become annoyed because I said I am a virgin? Just because I’m in the industry does not mean I am badly behaved. Not everyone is sexually active. You can have a boyfriend and not be sexually active.

“The reaction I got shows the mentality of the people. If I say I’m a virgin, I am and if I say I am not, then I am not. They tell me to go get married, should I go after  someone else’s  husband?

“Everybody thinks one should get married from age 18. A lot of marriages are complicated. Marriage will come when it will come, one doesn’t need to force it.

“People are getting divorced with pregnancies because they got married under pressure. We should let people be. People are saying if you are not getting married, go and get kids because menopause is approaching. What kind of thing is that? Is it your menopause?  I still have about nine years before I hit menopause all things being equal.

“I am not one of those people that will kill themselves because of marriage. I can’t have kids outside marriage.”

 

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