Don’t be fooled, just like women, men swim in insecurities as well. They fear, they cry, they feel heartbreak and get hurt too. In fact, they are even more vulnerable than kids. Let’s take a look at the deepest worst fears of a man.
Failure
Men still have higher earning power than women. Even though we think this is just unfair , it’s a statistical fact. And men are very aware that their paycheck is usually the bulk of the household income. So if they fail, it usually means they put their family in a financial pinch, and our kids will have to go without the new shoes they wanted for school. And that makes men feel as bad as if they didn’t protect them from getting eaten up by some wild animals. Men fear this scenario so much that they sometimes put an unhealthy emphasis on work just so that we make sure we never have to put our wives and children through that.
Rejection
Times have changed, what a man can do, you know the rest. Men sometimes feel lost about what their roles in the family are. Having this role change somewhat makes a man feel not needed. No man will be ever happy if his responsibilities are taken over.
Denial
Women have always been the problem of man from the time of creation. Women most times just deny men things because they can. Most men are troubled by a woman’s denial of them, hence, they sort other means and sources of happiness to avoid the drama.
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