You know those annoying and irritating behaviors men put out? Let us spell it out to them.
Men, you know you’re far from perfect and you’re also aware of the things that bother her to a certain extent. You’re not supposed to change yourself to her liking, but you need to refrain yourself from doing things that might possibly damage the relationship in some way or the other. And the following things aren’t too much to give up anyway;
Stop staring at other women!
Keep your eyes in one place…preferably on her.
Even though you think you might be in control of yourself around your girlfriend, but you could be wrong all the same. She notices the slightest of slips. She is painfully aware of how your gaze follows the hottie walking by you. You might not hear her complain about it, but she definitely doesn’t like it. When you’re with her, don’t get sidetracked by anything or anyone. She deserves undivided attention.
Making her feel more insecure
Women tend to be naturally more concerned with their looks as compared to guys. They constantly need reassurance, mostly from themselves, but at times from other people as well, especially their boyfriends/husbands. And your remarks make all the difference in the world, so be very careful with them. If she has gained a little weight or her haircut makes her look a little weird, don’t make her feel bad about it. You’re with her for more than just her looks, make sure she knows that.
You need to be comfortable with her social life
To have a healthy relationship, you two should be able to be entirely yourselves, have your space and have a life outside the relationship. That would mean her hanging out with her friends, and you hanging out with yours. You wouldn’t want to give up on your night out with the guys, don’t ask her to give up seeing her friends. If you’re going to keep her from seeing her friends, that’d mean she’d be spending more time with you, and you might have to sacrifice a little game time or something. You might not really like that.
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