It is funny how the male population somehow think all females dream of getting married (some even take it as a life goal). Well, think again–not everyone is bothered. So let us take a look at why some girls think differently.
Some girls have been broken so hard…
We all suffer through hardships and broken hearts sometimes, but maybe you have gone through the pain more than the rest. Maybe you are the girl who knows what emotional pain is and maybe you know it better than all of us. Maybe you are the girl who entirely understands the intensity of pain that hits you when someone breaks your heart.
Maybe you are one of them who understand how broken hearts can break your entire being and how difficult it gets to gather all the pieces and put them together again and again. Maybe you have suffered too many a times and do not believe in divine promises anymore. It is your doubts that make you no longer fantasize marriage and it is all good, if so.
When you have witnessed marriages that are messy and end up badly…
…why would anyone dive into such mess? Maybe you have seen many marriages fail terribly and you do not want that for yourself. You may have seen them closely and experienced the hard air and broken hearts that are left after the failure and you do not choose that for yourself. Maybe someone else’s failed marriage left a scar on your own inner self which stops you from forming any kind of union with another person. You do not want to become a total pessimist but at the same time, maybe, you do not want to put other people in danger too. You are not sorry for feeling that way and maybe you are right about all of it.
When you don’t click with the Men around you, you know you have not met the one
Maybe you have not come across the person who you can imagine spending your whole life with. Maybe you are not sure when that will happen and how you will handle it, so you just leave the fantasies for the time being. Maybe you are mature enough to understand that expectations are not healthy when too many and too high, so you keep them low and wait for that moment. Maybe, when that moment finally comes, you will realize that the wait was worth it and that he is just the right person you can picture your entire future with.
Marriage is not just your thing
Contrary to believe, not everyone wants to settle down or be caged as the case may be. Marriage takes a lot, it changes you etc Not everyone is ready to make drastic changes in their lives for another. To you, marriages are not something to aspire to but they are lifetime decisions that you are not sure you will make. Maybe it is something you have left on your fate to decide and maybe, it is something that may or may not happen someday.
Let me know your thoughts.
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