Self proclaimed ‘Love Doktor’, Joro Olumofin has penned yet another piece, this time addressing the struggles of a Nigerian wife.
He took to his social media platform to share his latest article which reads
The Diary & Struggles of a Nigerian wife (Juxtaposition of Cognition) I.e I put myself in the shoes of a Nigerian Wife; based on mails i receive from clients & direct observation) .
Hi, my name is Mrs X, i have been married to my husband for 9 years. I smile and glow in public but the emotional and mental baggages I carry weigh me down. I am expected by society to be perfect to my husband despite the fact that he throws negativity at me very often. I am a Warrior who is not appreciated by her Kinsmen. .
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This is my Diary. Read carefully: .
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1⃣MY SEX LIFE IS DWINDLING :
1) After my 2nd child my husband complained that my vagina is not the same to him anymore. Is it a sin to have children? .
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2) My husband now treats sex like a chore, no more efforts just BANG, BANG and he’s DONE, there’s no more foreplay. He treats Sex like something to tick off a calendar list. .
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3) My husband recently started demanding somethings I’m not okay with, such as ( anal, masochism, threesomes, recorded sex seasons. I know he is being influenced by his friends or his Sidechicks or maybe mid-life crisis. Do I give in? or let him get it outside ? I really want to make him happy. I want to keep my home, do I throw away My values to make him happy? .
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2⃣ I HAVE TO DEAL WITH SIDECHICKS (Do I ignore? , attack my husband for his actions or find a sugar boy of my own? )
Of recent I have noticed some changes in my him .
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1) I discovered a new phone he has and I didn’t know about
2) I once found a used condom in the car .
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3) My little cousins in Unilag & Babcock University keep asking if my husband is now running a Masters program because they see him so much on their campus.
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4) My husband is a prowler on social media he is always sliding into DM and comments on so many ladies pictures. He is following 3000 girls .
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5)I finally got wind of his Sidechicks identity, she is my exact opposite ( Bleached skin, long Brazilian hair, so many tattoos, her grammar is very poor from her captions on social media, I saw a couple of shoes and clothes my husband bought me on his last trip on her page.)
