Life 411: Never Date Someone You Can’t Marry

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Chop and clean mouth is a regular pidgin phrase used in Nigeria to describe a sinister act of taking advantage of a situation or someone.

Unfortunately this syndrome can be applicable to romantic affairs and it has been the cause of many troubled marriages today as many couples in marriage are total mismatched.

We have had cases where a guy just decides to catch fun with a lady he would never consider his bae just for the lady to get pregnant or blackmail him as well as threaten him diabolically and at the end he is forced to marry the lady which inadvertently breeds an unhappy union.

The same case happens to a lady where she just decides to take advantage of a man she never sees the possibility of marrying just for her to find herself in an unfortunate situation.

Many baby mamas and daddies are springing up day by day and several children lack parental care as a result of this act.

Lives have been lost through complicated abortions and several other reasons all because a man or woman decided to indulge in chop and clean mouth act.

Except you are a gigolo or a call girl, the simple truth is that we must avoid this act at all costs.

Never date someone you know you can not possibly marry and if you must sleep with anyone, let that person be the type you can marry.

I don’t know if this makes any sense.

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